Resources Index

Here’s a big giant index of the resources that have been helpful to us or to people we love. It will include hotlines and websites, books, links to helpful articles we’ve read on the interwebs, etc. It’s an ever-growing thing and you’ll find a lot of additional stuff in the Resources category. This page here just indexes everything in one, probably unwieldy, spot.

Please note: If you are not in need of the services listed below, these organizations can also use your help. You can give time and/or money to help them with the valuable work they do. You’ll find volunteer opportunities at all of the links below, as well as help if you are in need. If you know of a helpful organization we should list here, please email us at

Domestic Abuse Hotlines/Organizations

If you are in immediate danger, call 911! We’re listing national-level organizations here, but states, counties, and cities have their own domestic-abuse organizations. Help is out there if you need it. We know it’s scary. You can do it.

The National Domestic Abuse Hotline Website: If you fear your internet use may be monitored, call 1-800-799-7233.

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence


Suicide Prevention/Intervention

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline or call 1-800-273-8255



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Other places to get advice if the two goofy broads running this site aren’t doin’ it for ya

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